Today marks a curious anniversary for me: one decade ago today, I had the dubious distinction of breaking both of my legs in a snowboarding accident. This occurred before the blogosphere was ticking along like it is now, and even so, it's not a go-to conversation topic for me. However, to mark the occasion, I'd like to spend a few minutes sharing the story.
In the closing months of 2001, the world is still reeling from 9/11,
the tech bubble has already burst, and I am a senior at MIT. The fall
semester is to be my last hard one; spring only holds one class and a
thesis. My primary extracurricular concerns are beer, mozzarella
sticks, and escaping the horrid east coast "snow" for something better
to make turns on.
On January 8, 2002, I drive to Kirkwood with 3 friends, looking
forward to a great Tuesday of snowboarding. The snow will be hard until
late morning and the mountain is empty, so I elect to start the day on
my race board, a Burton-made beast that's equal parts scalpel and cruise
missile. To a large degree, it's a device that screams "does not play
well with others," and that's a good part of why it's awesome. The
feeling of riding this thing at speed is hard to describe, but I'll do
Strap into thinly-veiled ski boots, and click them into plate
bindings that sit at a 45-degree angle along the length of the board.
Awkwardly scoot along to get on and off lifts and through loading
zones. Formula 1 cars are not built to idle at stoplights, and this
board is not built to do anything but haul ass. Get underway, then look
a few turns ahead and pick a line, taking care to note locations of
obstacles and snow irregularities, as well as to calculate the
trajectories of other mountain guests. Pick up speed with your back to
the mountain, riding on your heel edge, and then, when the time is
right, engage hyperdrive. Bend your knees, load your quads, and steer
with your shoulders. The board snaps hard from the heel edge to the toe
edge, and the turn starts. You're downhill from the board, a seeming
violation of the laws of physics, but the g-forces created between the
board's edge and the snow suspend your body in mid-air over the run.
Those forces build as the turn continues, your quads bearing the duty of
keeping your torso from collapsing into the board. At the apex of the
turn, your body is laid out over the snow from knee to hip to armpit to
hand, and your dilated pupils watch the ridges of the groomed snow
streak past faster than your visual cortex can keep up with. As the
turn concludes, the g-forces subside, and your body re-enters the land
of the living just long enough to load the tail of the board to set up
that glorious weightless snap back to the heel edge where it all happens
again. There's no slipping and no sliding and no "maybe let's go over
here and check out this other spot," and by the time you've exceeded the
speed limit of most highways with your face inches away from the snow,
your legs are a quivering mess of jello, and the only evidence that
you've struck is a series of deep well-defined trenches in the snow with
gaps of many feet of wholly-undisturbed snow between turns. You are a
ninja, and you've got about as much in common with the other
snowboarders as a shark has with a sea full of goldfish. Welcome to the
top of the food chain.
When it's right, it's one of the most pure experiences out there.
It's an addictive feeling, and I am giddy with caffeine-free
anticipation to plug into it at Kirkwood. On our first run of the day, I
survey an empty trail save for my three friends ahead of me and begin
the process described above. Not even one turn in, and just beginning
to pick up speed near the treeline, I watch another snowboarder exit the
trees without looking uphill. He's about 15 feet in front of me, and
the nature of committing to a turn on the race board gives me about half
a second of realization that no quick maneuvering will be possible
before the collision happens. The front of my board strikes the back of
his binding, his first indication that I'm there. My legs stop
instantly while my upper body continues on, and both tibias and fibulas
experience about 200 times the force of gravity before they snap inside
my boots (yes, I did the math). Before I slide to a stop, I know that both my legs are
broken. As the waves of shock roll over me, I'm not yet able to realize
that my life has changed. It will take years to come to terms with it,
but the tenth of a second that it takes for my legs to go from whole to
pieces will be a defining moment beyond any I've experienced to date.
The first hour or so is excruciating. Unable to medicate me at the
mountain, the clinic staff mediates the battle between bone shards,
sweet sweet shock, and blistering pain as best they can. They perform
some rudimentary traction on my right leg, and it's from this particular
batch of seconds that my all-time milestone of pain comes, still easily
recalled to this day.
The ambulance ride brings Dilaudid, a heaven-sent gift of opioid escape.
don't remember much of the hospital, probably a blessing considering
the racks of power tools they have at standby. They move my kneecaps
aside, drill into the top of each tibia, ream out the bone marrow,
select titanium-vanadium rods to fit snugly down the length of the bone,
pound them down, drill self-tapping screws through the bone and each
rod, and staple me back together. I come to under the purvey of a morphine
clicker, an interesting little device that teaches me a thing or two
about chemical dependence over the course of three days. I'll be damned
if I don't learn to wake up every seven minutes and fifty-five seconds
to catch the 8-minute lockout on the thing before I go back to sleep.
The next weeks bring bed and not much else. Once I'm able to be a
little bit mobile, I can move around in a wheelchair; I'm to be 100%
non-weight-bearing for 8 weeks. After returning to Boston, exceedingly
grateful that my final semester will be a light load, I start to learn
about accessibility in the old city: I can't make it two blocks to
physical therapy without encountering multiple obstacles that are
non-navigable in a wheelchair, and I'm also unable to enter my own house
without being carried up or down the stairs. I also learn a few dark
lessons about how people look at and act toward wheelchair users. After
those 8 weeks of purgatory end and I'm able to use crutches (another 8
weeks), my world expands leaps and bounds thanks to a more nimble form
of transportation. I'm still only allowed to bear weight evenly across
my legs, so taking a step is out of the question. Hey, at least my arms
Finally, desperately, I'm cleared to bear more weight, which comes with it the task of relearning how to walk.
previous 4 months have been filled with sleepless nights and dreary
days of longing for activity and recreation. However, it's not until
the walking lessons begin that it really rings clear: something I've
taken for granted since before my earliest childhood memories can be
wholly unlearned in a trivial amount of time. Something as simple as
self-ambulation is not a gift to be trifled with; it can be snatched
away with the greatest of ease. It's in those weeks of relearning what
balance is and how to move about without making the metal in me hurt
that I make a promise to myself to never take mobility for granted.
Every day I will make the most of it, whatever form it might take, and I
will remain grateful for it as long as I have it.
It's during one of those sleepless nights (early on) that I discover
a mental process that allows me to move healing energy down to my legs;
I can feel healing happen in real time. It's a mild epiphany; a
departure from the science-ruled world I've known all my life and from
the engineering curriculum I've been ensconced in for four years.
The next year is relatively uneventful. The mild course load allows
me to finish MIT without much trouble; a blessing considering the
amount of physical therapy I'm doing. However, walking hurts, an
attempt to run a quarter of a mile ends in some comically ginger
hobbling, and so much as stubbing my toe sends vibrations up the rod in
my tibia and makes my knee scream out in protest.
At the one year mark, the hardware gets removed.
I feel more
than a little bit crazy to volunteer for more surgery, more bed rest,
and more physical therapy. It's much better this time around, and it's
all in the name of progress. The pain isn't as bad and the rehab is far
easier; no wheelchair and only a few weeks of downtime. Snowboarding
is wholly out of the question until at least the following winter; two
full years off the snow and away from my beloved pastime and sole
spiritual escape from the hustle and bustle of the world. As a bonus,
I've now got a couple pounds of exotic metal in a bag to serve as a
reminder of the whole ordeal. And two sets of gnarly scars.
Now with renewed spring in my step, the desire to return to the
mountains burns stronger than ever, but there's a nagging doubt. After
all, the last time I went snowboarding, look what happened! Along with
my promise to myself to take full advantage of my new-found mobility,
the desire to strengthen my legs to sustain the rigors of cliff drops
and hard turns the following winter leads to an interesting
proposition. I'll enter a triathlon, a little short local one, and if
my legs survive that, surely they'll be ready to get back on the snow.
After all, I swam and played water polo through high school, I've got a
mountain bike that's fun to ride, and I do run a couple times a year, up
to and including three miles!
The swimming and biking training isn't too bad, but running is a
different story altogether. With substantial pain on board, the most
I'm able to run before the race is a mile, and it ain't pretty. When
the race rolls around, I'm counting on relying on pure determination to
run the five miles, and that works out kinda OK, but it's some rather
humbling moments on the bike where I'm passed by women in their 50s that
really go to work on me. I'm wrecked and hooked, all at the same time.
Finally, the winter brings a return to the snow. The first few days
are filled with abject terror anytime another skier or snowboarder is
within 20 yards, but that fear subsides soon enough. A few storms into
the season, I return to Kirkwood, and in addition to visiting The Spot, I
take a spectacular high-speed tomahawking fall down a steep powder slope
and come up whole. Confidence is regained!
Fast forward a few years, and changes have been happening left and
right. Jobs come and go (all for the better), friends wax
and wane, and I finally discover travel. My approach to sport shifts dramatically; both physical and mental games get
raised a few bars. On the snow, I ride progressively harder and
harder lines, terrain that used to scare me to even look at. In the
world of triathlon, I come to relish the feel of competition and the
process of improvement at increasingly difficult races. A fortunate
combination of circumstance and opportunity takes me to New Zealand to
live, further fueling the fire to explore more of the world and
expanding my love for sport. I meet a nice Irish girl there, and she's
alright, too. Fast forward a few more years, and changes and growth are
still the name of the game.
If you've made it this far, hats off to you.
What's this all about? Well, there's no doubt that if that fateful day a
decade ago had played out differently, it's not as though my life
wouldn't have changed in the meantime. There's also no doubt that it
wouldn't be the same it is today. And I'm not enough of a fatalist to
think that my "bad day on my snowboard" set this exact course that I've
followed for ten years thus far. However, the fundamental shift in
perspective that it brought about has opened up paths and opportunities
that would have remained shrouded from view had I not been fortunate
enough to experience it.
I'd also like to state that, really, I had it pretty easy. There are
FAR worse injuries one could sustain, FAR less brilliant surgeons (thank
you from the bottom of my heart, Dr. Rupp), and FAR less complete
recoveries. Maybe it was a wake-up call I was in dire need of. In any
case, I certainly could have reacted to it far differently. Done the
victim thing. But deep down, there was a sensation of warm and fuzzy
opportunity that I couldn't ignore, and it's to the point now where, ten
trips around the sun later, I'm glad it went down the way it did. I
wouldn't go as far as to recommend that you go step in front of a bus to
bask in the glory of some life-changing surgeries, but if it happens,
make the most of it.
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